Tuesday 10 November 2009

Stationary Inspiration

Stationary Inspiration

Credits: D. Jones Photography, Wedding bee, Rochelle Mort, Blooms by Martha Andrews, Michelle Photography, Cake Stands by Raise the Cake, Linda Chaja, Erin Hearts Court, La Partie Events


Wedding Stationary

I think that the wedding stationary you have at a wedding is really important. For a start its the first glimpse of your wedding that prospective guests receive and it is also one of the easiest ways to infuse your personality and style into your big day. I put this board together to show my mum the sort of thing we are looking at for our handmade wedding stationary.

Because the stationary is so important to me I'm more than willing to spend a lot of time getting it just perfect - which helps when there are so many paper ideas that we want to incorporate into our wedding day.

We are looking at using a combination of thick cream papers and brown parcel-type paper for all of our wedding stationary and will be combining these materials with lots of personal touches such as quotes from our favorite movies, books and songs, handwriting and calligraphing all of the stationary and including lots of little extra special touches.

These extra special touches will include a personalized wedding crossword or word puzzle at each place setting, an information booklet including all local accommodation, taxi, sights and gift list information, a hand drawn map and directions insert and a wedding itinerary for our weekend guests. 

Monday 26 October 2009

Inspiration Board - Simple and Fun summer wedding

INVITATION CHALLENGE

Credits: Meg Baisden Photography, Erin Hearts Court, Heather Kincaid, Dia Rao


For me this board epitomizes the type of wedding we want. What could be nicer than a summers day wedding, all of our friends and family together in a beautiful house - BBQ and buffet in the garden… the sweet smell of summer flowers in the air… popping the corks from bottles of sparkling home-made lemonade… lemon drizzle cake on cream plates… children playing hula hoop and ball games on the grass… candles being lit all around as the sun goes down… touches of bright against a creamy white background… DIY touches to be found everywhere… Simple… Fun… Sweet… Beautiful…. ‘Us’… xxx

Wednesday 7 October 2009

Sorry!

Hey sorry i've been so neglectful of posting in the past couple of weeks, 
had a lot on my mind and unfortunately having nappy brain and blogging don't really go hand in hand! I'll be making it up to you though with some great posts in the next few days.

Love alex
xxx

Thursday 24 September 2009

Grey wedding fashion

Bridal Party Fashion

Credits: Studio Foto



Scott has always had a thing for grey suits and this was the one thing he ‘insisted’ upon for our wedding day - that he wanted to wear a grey three-piece suit and have his groomsmen in grey suits aswell. This was fine by me as i’m not too keen on black suits for weddings anyway and we certainly aren’t tux kind of people! 
Then when looking at all the different bridesmaid dresses out there I realized that I wanted my gorgeous girls in something a little bit different from the boring pink or burgundy dresses on sale everywhere - my first thought was LBDs but I have changed my mind… so in comes the LGD (little grey dress of course!).
 My maids all have very different skin tones and hair colours and body shapes so a fairly neutral colour like grey will suit everyone and I just fell in love with the gorgeous Melissa Sweet dresses. 
For the flower-girls I will be sticking to white but having grey sashes to tie in with the older girls. 
And of course I won’t be getting married without a pair of laboutins on my feet - and these silver/grey ones fit the bill entirely- so glamourous its no wonder they are called ‘Hollywood’!
xxx

DIY Touches

DIY Touches

Credits: Meg Baisden Photography, Suthi Picotte, Kawartha Photography


I made up this board to showcase some of the DIY touches that I will be adding to our wedding (when it finally gets here!). Our budget might be low, but our creativity is certainly high and with my imagination (and hubby-to-be’s practicality) we hope to pull it off… it’s not like we don’t have enough time to plan either :-p

Most of our wedding will have a DIY touch incorporated in some way - from our invitations which we are hand-designing ourselves to our food, cake, flowers and favours. 

All of our flowers will be hand-done, incorporating a mixture of pure white and colourful arrangements in glass vases, jars and other miscellaneous holders. We’ve already got our friends and family collecting empty jam jars and vases for us to use!

DIY food touches will include lots of home-made cakes, cupcakes, pies and biscuits, mini personalized jars of honey and jam for our guests to take away and lots of donated items for our buffet! Along with all of our stationary we will be designing and printing our own labels for favours, water bottles and my personal favourite - our personalised matchboxes. Admittedly they aren’t an original idea but we will be having those printed on one side with our names and date of wedding and on the other the definition of marriage and the quote ‘the perfect match’. 

xxx

Monday 21 September 2009

Wedding Flowers

Colourful Flowers

Credits: Sedona Bride


When we first started looking at planning our wedding my original plan was to go with all white flowers but after a lot of thinking, and digging through the internet and bloggers archives I realized that I just couldn't visualize our wedding being white! 
I crave colour all of the time - my favourites are the bright ones - Red, Orange, Turquoise... And although I could put together lots of weddings that featured solely white colours I soon realized that those boards that I was diligently putting together weren't our wedding, they just weren't 'Us'. So i've scrapped that plan and now have settled on having a rather un-schemed colour scheme (if there is such a thing!) 
We are going to have a mixture of bright, fun, summery colours in arrangements that are loose and handmade. Like most of our wedding we will be DIY-ing the flowers so they will be in simple arrangements, loosely displayed in various glass vases, mason jars, jam jars and other eclectic holders.
Scott likes the idea of putting some flowers in metal buckets or baskets, which I think would look great (just as long as they were done 'right'). Even for my bouquet (which I am going to go for solely white and creamy flowers) will be loose, hand-tied and probably filled with peonies, roses and greenery.
The ideal look for our wedding flowers would be 'wild and rustic' but with a touch of care that shows how much work has gone into making them look gorgeous!
xxx

Feature on stylemepretty.com!


How amazingly happy did it make me to log into my computer today, open up Stylemepretty.com (my favourite wedding blog) only to see that one of my own inspiration boards had been featured! 

Abby (the blog creator) had this to say about my work:

"Alexandria has the greatest sense of style, full of whimsy and charm, and really takes the time to articulate her vision. I've loved reading her blog and always look forward to what she's going to do next. Definitely worth a trip over to the Style Circle to read what this Style Guru is saying!"

Talk about praise! And not to blow my own trumpet here (but) I am pretty proud of the stuff that I put together and get so much enjoyment out of it all - the new Style Circle has certainly changed the way I put things together - it makes everything so much easier than copying and pasting into paint and there are so many beautiful images to choose from! 

Congratulations Abby on creating such a great resource for brides-to-be, and everyone else out there who loves a little inspiration!

xxx 




Thursday 17 September 2009

Bird and Owl themed baby shower


As you know from previous posts Scott and I have been thinking about adding a few bird-themed details to our wedding - little things like including birds in our stationary and having bird cake-toppers. Whilst on the web I came across loads of lovely ideas that could be used for a baby shower as well and what better theme could we have for our very own little 'Robin'?
The soft colours of Tiffany Blue, light yellow and pale pink are also the sorts of colours we will be going for in our nursery too - hopefully we will be able to reuse some of our baby shower decorations in there and vice-versa!
The Lemon souffle looks so yummy and served in mini white ramekins, decorated with lemon peel it looks almost too good to eat - as do the little bluebird cupcakes!
The cake is great fun - i love the colours, the whimsicality of the design and the cute little owls on top - its just too sweet! The nappy cake is a traditional baby shower decoration, but this one has mixed it up a bit and ties in perfectly with the theme as its decorated with birdhouses and mini birds - so cute!
Now i've just got to hope that my girlie mates see this and decide to go with a bird theme for our baby shower :-p
xxx

Wednesday 16 September 2009

Nursery Inspiration Board

Nursery inspiration for girl

Credits: Vintage modern nursery (2), Pottery barn (2), I-do Australia (2), google images (4)


As you all know me and Scott are expecting our first baby on January 6th (not long now!) and so I have been thinking lots about how to decorate our little one's nursery.
Im loving the idea of having a modern and fun take on a woodland/bird theme - with tree and bird murals on the wall and lots of cute accessories like the gorgeous owl cushion. By mixing it up a bit with the fun polka dot pattern it will be a more modern version of the theme. This sort of nursery will be quite long lasting too - we won't have to redecorate for quite a few years because its a versatile scheme.
Scott and I are expecting baby to be a girl (although it isn't 100%) so have been looking at a turquoise, white and pale pink colour scheme but this idea could easily be adapted to suit a little boy as well - just with a tweak of the colours :-)

xxx

Saturday 5 September 2009

Homemade Summer Wedding

Homemade Summer Fun

More Information: image by Martha Stewart weddings, image by martha Stewart weddings


How much am I still loving Style Me Pretty's Style Circle?
This board is another of my attempts at recreating the feel that Scott and I want for our wedding day.
The inspiration for this board came from the amazing Martha Stewart cake (which I have posted on the blog before) and the colours and fun whimsy it provides. Our wedding, if everything goes according to plan and budget (!) will be filled with lots of little homemade touches - particularly where the stationary and decoration of our venue is concerned.
I have fallen in love with the idea of having paper lanterns and tissue paper pom-poms hanging through the trees, interspersed with hanging glass jars holding flickering candles as the sun sets *swoon*
The handmade guestbook is a fun and original idea, a bit more interesting than the average guest book and a lot more fun!
And of course the blackboard at the bottom sums it all up 'Live, Laugh, Love' - it's what every day and every wedding should be about!
xxx

Recipe Three - Chicken and Apple


Chicken and Apple Puree

1 cooked and chopped boneless chicken breast
2 cooked and chopped dessert apples or 6 heaped tablespoons of apple sauce (no added sugar)

Puree the two ingredients together, adding a small amount of unsweetened apple juice if the consistency is too thick.

This recipe is great for a day when you and daddy are eating chicken - you can make baby's food at the same time :-) 

xxx


Friday 4 September 2009

Woodland Accessories


I'm loving these woodland inspired pieces from australian company www.kidsgiftlist.com/au.
The height chart is a fun and interactive piece of room decor and the squirrels... well you gotta love the squirrels! 

xxx

Budget Art

Woop! I won my Ebay bid on three plain white artists canvases. I'm hoping to create something like the picture above with them :-) I'll probably leave the base white or paint it cream (rather than blue) and will be making the owls/birds and other animals out of patterned scrap paper. Hopefully they will turn out okay and fingers crossed they will make the perfect addition to the baby's room. I was originally planning to paste the birds and animals straight onto the wall but figured it would be more practical to put them onto canvas - much easier to change later on!

xxx

Family Tree

How cute is this family tree painting? 
I think we will definitely be bringing this idea into play when decorating our nursery. I won't be using these colours as we are planning to stick to a neutral base with brighter accents (there won't be any pink or blue!) but the idea of having all of our little one's family included in their room decoration is such a lovely one. And of course the tree fits perfectly in with our loose woodland/animal theme. 
xxx

Thursday 3 September 2009

Our nursery furniture :-)

Well we are pretty much settled on our nursery furniture now (just gotta go buy it!). We really like the Leksvik range from Ikea, and it helps because its a great value budget buy AND is still solid wood. The cot itself is £75 and there are a few different cot mattresses to go with it, although we are going to decide on which one to get in person (better to have a good feel don't you think?!). 

What i really like about it is the fact that it has adjustable height mattress base (so will be suitable as a cot until baby is a year old) and then one side is removable so it can also be a cute toddler bed. Not bad for the price! 

There is a matching chest of drawers that we are going to be getting too - we'll probably use it as a baby changing unit whilst the baby is young and then as clothes storage as they get older. It helps that Ikea has a normal single bed and a children's bed available in the same wood finish - so when it comes to buying their first 'big bed' we can match it up with the existing furniture.

Now just got to get a day off to visit Ikea... no doubt i'll find more little bits to get whilst we are in there! 
xxx 

Yummy Sweet potatoes :-)


Lately my pregnancy craving has been for sweet potatoes and so I thought i'd post up my favourite way to have them.
Sweet potatoes are really healthy - they are rich in complex carbohydrates, fiber, beta carotene and lots of A, B6 and C vitamins. Which is good for me because they taste really yummy when baked :-) 

When Scott and I cook sweet potatoes we do it really simply - just scrub the potatoes, prick them with a fork and bake them in the oven for about forty minutes. After they are softer we cut them in half and stick them on the grill with a topping of caramelized onions and cheese. These are so tasty and really filling too. 

Great for when you're feeling peckish and also nice as an accompaniment with grilled chicken or fish. I think that I'll be eating LOADS of these once the baby is here and I need the extra energy for breastfeeding. 

The other plus side is that once baby starts weaning i'll be able to cook sweet potato for them aswell - just bake until extra soft, remove the skin and puree with a tiny dab of butter (you can guess who will be eating up their leftovers!)

xxx

Wednesday 2 September 2009

Recipe Two - Apple and Pear

Apple and pear puree (optional cinnamon)

This puree recipe is taken from Annabel Karmel's 'Top 100 baby purees' and is an ideal first food because it is easy to digest and unlikely to cause any allergies. The cinnamon is an optional addition - some parents like to leave out extra spices until their baby is a little older. 

For this recipe you need:

2 dessert apples (try Pink Lady or Royal Gala)
2 ripe pears (try Conference or Chinese sweet pears)
4 tbsp pure apple juice or water
generous pinch of ground cinnamon (optional)

Put the peeled and chopped fruit into a saucepan with the apple juice or water (and the cinnamon if using). Cover and simmer over a low heat for 6-8 minutes until tender before blending to a smooth puree. 

Cute Baby Toys


WOW WOW WOW!
How adorable are these handmade toys and mobiles from the Etsy Seller KLTWorks?
Im loving anything bird/wildlife themed at the moment and think that these are just gorgeous and such good, colourful fun! 

These are going on my wishlist :-)

xxx

Nursery - paper animals


More nursery inspiration I found whilst browsing chicmotherandbaby.com/au - these cute collages of animals are so cute and would be so easy to recreate yourself on a budget. I personally would put the paper images directly onto the wall - however if you wanted a room that could be changed easier then it would still look great if the images were painted/pasted onto canvases. You can pick up plain canvases pretty cheaply online and in big stores such as TK Maxx or Etc... 

xxx

Nursery - Birds


As usual I have been scouring the web for inspiring ideas for our little one's nursery, and, thankfully, haven't been disappointed by today's finds. Went through some nursery pictures on 'Rate my Space' (ratemyspace.com) and found this absolutely adorable and completely Diy-friendly nursery. 
The nursery had a loose bird/woodland theme and this had been achieved in the colours aswell as all of the cute little details. 

The birds themselves were cut out of scrap-booking paper found on craft websites and in their local stationers and were glued onto the wall before being varnished over - i think they are a really nice idea, particularly as they are a neutral and long-lasting design so the parents won't need to remove them any time soon. Of course you can get lots of murals and stickers online but I like these better because of their individuality and fun... not to mention how budget friendly they are! 

xxx

Weaning


Many parents delay the start of weaning until their baby is at least six months old - however this tends to be because of the fact that the processed jars of food tend to be aged at 6+ months. Most doctors, health advisors and nutritionists agree that a baby is able to be weaned from the age of four months. 

During the first year of a baby's life most of the nutrition that they receive will be gained from their breast or formula milk intake - so as long as they are still receiving the right amounts of milk the baby loses no nutrition from being weaned at four months than they would later on. According to Annabel Karmel, a leading child nutritionist, it isn't a good idea to delay introducing solids any later than six months as a baby needs to learn to chew and swallow food. Also chewing encourages the development of muscles that are essential for speech. 

From four months the types of foods that are suitable for a baby are:
baby rice mixed with breast or formula milk, avocado, bananas, cooked apple and pear, parsnip, potato, carrot, squash and sweet potato. 

Image: babyccinoblog.com

xxx

Recipe One


Ok so all the equipment you need to produce your own nutritional baby purees is a hand blender (or a normal blender although this is harder to clean) and some plastic ice cube trays. 
Making your own baby food is not only a hundred times healthier for them but is also one of the most effective ways of saving money - particularly if you use ingredients that you are also using for your own dinners. 

All you really need to do is blend the vegetables or cooked meat that you are using into a smooth puree, mixing with a little bit of the cooking water if you need to thin it out. You can then pour this puree into an ice cube tray and put it in the freezer. Once its frozen you can empty the cubes into a plastic freezer bag (labelled with the date) and this way you can reuse the ice cube trays too. Cooking in bulk and freezing in batches couldn't be easier - all you need to do is defrost your puree in the microwave or on the hob when its to be used. 


First vegetable puree - carrots

Steam or boil (in a small amount of water) 350g/12oz of carrots that have been peeled or chopped. 
Drain and puree with some of the cooking liquid until very smooth. 
This makes 8 portions and is ideal for freezing.

Baby Food

Unfortunately these days people are eating more and more heavily processed food - sales of microwave ready meals are on average twenty percent higher than sales of fresh produce and meals seem to revolve around spending as little time in the kitchen/eating as possible. 

This has also led to a rise in the use of processed jars of baby food that you see in the shops nowadays, and which most mothers use for their babies. Many of these baby food companies, including the big names such as Hipp Organics and Heinz replace real food products with water and thickening agents in their baby food - of course this food is then going to be nutritionally inferior to products made with fresh food. So according to testing by the CSPI the baby foods are nutritionally defunct, and not only that but they cost a lot more than similar regular foods that aren't marketed at parents.

For me this is a really important thing to understand - I don't like putting junk food into my body and i'm certainly not planning on putting junk food into our baby either! So when it comes to weaning Scott and I are planning to make all of our baby's food ourselves - this way we know exactly what the baby is eating and that the food doesn't have added fillers and sugar. 

It isn't actually particularly time consuming to make your own babyfood - particularly today when most people have a blender (or hand blender) and you can easily produce a big batch of food and freeze it ready to be used throughout the month. 

Because of the importance of this to me i'll be adding a new regular post - each week i'll be putting up a little bit of nutritional information or advice on baby feeding and a quick, easy and nutritional recipe for baby food. 

Hope you like it 
xxx

ps: have a look at the link for more information about the different findings concerning baby foods and their nutritional (and purse friendly) values: 

http://www.cspinet.org/reports/cheat1.html

Tuesday 1 September 2009

Nursery Inspiration

How cute is this nursery? I love the tree on the wall and the cute leaves cut out of scrap-booking paper. This is the sort of design that we want to incorporate into the nursery for our little one. We will be going for a wildlife theme mixed with neutral colours for the base and brighter accessories. I'm going fabric hunting this week for some lovely patterned fabrics to turn into bunting and cushion covers. 

Scott and I were talking about painting a tree design onto the wall and turning it into a 'family tree' by attaching pictures of the baby's family and painting their names onto it.

xxx

Saturday 22 August 2009

Ice cream and Cakes

Cake and Ice cream

How about this for a cute, fun and retro wedding?
This cake and ice-cream board evokes the 1950s - bridesmaids in taffeta prom dresses and the groomsmen in bow ties.
Cakes, cherry pies and lemonade cocktails on the back lawn.
Sorbet colours, pastels and sunshine...

xxx
Late Summer - Grey, Yellow and Pink

This was my first attempt at an inspiration board on the style me pretty's new style circle.
My inspiration for this board came from the soft grey's of the bridesmaid dresses and the table linen. Both are so elegant and by combining them with beautiful flowers in bright pinks and yellows means that the day can be classic, elegant and stylish whilst still being fun and showing personality.  The rustic style pies and glass urns filled with cocktails and fruit juices are a must-have for our outdoorsy wedding and I love all the extra little details such as the paper lanterns and the recycled glass jars used as vases.

xxx

Wednesday 19 August 2009

Inspiration Boards

I'm very excited today because of the launch of the Style Circle from the amazing team that brought me Style Me Pretty! 

The website is absolutely amazing- you can create your own profile, talk to other brides and make the most amazing inspiration boards without any hassle! It launched today and I suggest you get your butts down there to have a look at it and have a play around with your own boards!

Have a good day

xxx


Tuesday 18 August 2009

Peek: The Birds, the Bees and the Butterflies

The more I search for inspiration for a late summer wedding the more beautiful and original things i find that I would love to incorporate into my own wedding. How about a classic, fun, whimsical theme such as this one: The birds, the bees and the butterflies...

The headpiece above is designed by etsy seller Whichgoose and is just one of her beautiful and fun designs. How gorgeous would these look on your bridesmaids or flower girls? 

I'm feeling inspired so I'm going to draw up some more inspiration and I'll get back to you on this theme...

xxx

Cake Toppers

How adorable are these little cake toppers? They are made by Lauren Alane on Etsy and can be customized to suit the couple. 
Scott and myself like the top birds best - the ones with the little ipod and are planning to use these instead of traditional (and unfortunately sometimes boring) cake-toppers of couples or rings :-) 

xxx

Saturday 1 August 2009

Our Pram


We chose our pram today :-)

It was a much more complicated procedure than I ever imagined that it would be - there are so many different types out there - it's as hard as buying a bloody car! But we got there in the end and chose the Mothercare Mychoice 4-wheeler in bright red with the Maxi-Cosi Cabriofix carseat. Its so perfect, I completely fell in love with it whilst pushing it around the store and folding it up (one handed woo!). The people in the store must've thought we were right crazies walking around trying out hundreds of different prams!

xxx

OMG! Big surprise!

Wow Wow Wow Wow!

We have had some very exciting news recently (hence the complete lack of blogging) and now I can officially share it with the world because Scott and I are expecting our first baby!

I am four months (sixteen weeks and four days) pregnant with our baby :-) and am due between the 25th December and the 6th January!

Of course this is a majorly exciting time for us - made even more special due to the fact that, for a long time, I was told that due to endometriosis and cysts on my womb, that I was likely to be infertile. Getting pregnant has been a complete dream come true for us and we are so proud to have been given this opportunity.

Popular opinion on the pregnancy is a little bit irregular - some people are very happy for us, whereas others think that we are much too young to be considering having a child (I am 20 and Scott is 21), however in our opinion the perfect time for having a child is whenever you are lucky enough to have one! 

So many people in this world can't have children, and I know what it feels like to think that you will never be a mum, so to me the most important thing is that a child is wanted, loved and that the parents (or parent) is willing to try hard to raise the child that they have been blessed with. 

Im going to be updating the blog pretty regularly from now on with all things baby related. The wedding has, of course, been postponed, however my planning head is still 'in the zone' and so I won't be stopping the inspiration stuff that I love to post up here :-)

Hope our news finds you well and happy, just like we are
Lots of love 
Alex and Scott
xxx

Thursday 28 May 2009

Simple, Summery Bridesmaid Dresses



No matter where we end up getting married there is one thing that Scott and I are definite about - and that is the fact that we want a warm weather wedding. 

Whenever I picture our wedding I see bright, summery colours - yellows, blues and greens mixed with flashes of bright, clean whites. For this reason we have decided against traditional, formal bridesmaid dresses and gone instead for light summer dresses. Of course I've been getting my thinking cap on to find the perfect dresses for the perfect girls in my life :-)

These dresses are all from Asos.com and I love them all for different reasons - the turquoise blue is such a perfect colour (not to mention one of my favourites!), the yellow is so summery and fun - I love all of the back strap details and think this sort of dress would be perfect at a backyard wedding BBQ.

To be honest though - although I love those two dresses the white would definitely be the most versatile - particularly as it would be possible to buy them up and dye them different colours according to the colour scheme. Seeing as we havn't settled on a definite colour scheme this would be very beneficial to us.

And the best bit? Not one of these dresses costs more than £50! 

xxx



Tuesday 21 April 2009

Recessionista


What is a recessionista I hear you ask? 

My answer is this: A recessionista is somebody who, with a limited budget, still manages to be fashionable, unique and have fun with their clothes. 

I would, given the current economic climate, suggest that EVERYONE start becoming more of a recessionista. Unless you have the budget of J-Lo then you have probably had to hold back with the credit cards in these recent months - I know that I certainly have been cutting back. 

There are a few steps that really make you a recessionista in my eyes - and I truly have been following them to the letter in recent months...

This is the first...

a) You need to really sort through your wardrobes. A certain Gok Wan is known for saying that we should all "shop less and wear more" - this is the right idea but before you can begin cutting down on your shopping habit you need to learn the art of 'organization'

Scott and I recently sorted out our wardrobes, although mass-annihilation would probably be a more appropriate term for what we did. Sticking by the rule of 'If you haven't worn it in the past year then chuck it" we managed to whittle down three wardrobes and six drawers worth of clothes into one wardrobe and three drawers - a fact that I am very proud of. Im sure that we could have even got rid of more of our things If i hadn't had such a soft spot for lingerie and Scott for t-shirts! 

The local charity shop was certainly lucky - with our TWELVE bin-bags full of donated goods, and shamefully to say, many of which were unworn!

b) Once you are left with only those items you wear organize them into sections - this can be via usage (i.e Sportswear, Underwear) or by Colour or any other categorization method that suits you...

Our wardrobe now goes a little something like this: 

Drawer One - Alex's Underwear 
Drawer Two - Scott' Underwear
Drawer Three - Socks/Tights/Gloves

Sportswear - including swimwear
Workwear - Shirts, Trousers, Smart skirts (pencil skirts etc)
Casual Wear - Jeans, t-shirts, vests, skirts (denim etc), dresses etc
Evening Wear - Dresses, suits, ties etc
Seasonal Wear - All of our winter jumpers etc have been boxed up and put in the base of the wardrobe until the weather turns again.

The idea was that by organizing our things into sections we could clearly see what we were lacking, or conversely, inundated with. In our case it's a mixture of casual clothes, particularly t-shirts, and evening wear (for something we rarely wear we have way too much of the stuff!).

c) Really think about what you are buying. Ok so you have cleared out your wardrobe - what you don't want to then do is use up all that new space by filling it with more useless clothes! When shopping stop and think about what you are buying - ask yourself some important questions:

Do I really need this item?
What will I wear it with?
Where will I wear it?
Is it worth the price on a cost-per-wear basis?

If you hesitate to find answers to any of these questions then step away from the unecessary purchase and put the money into a savings account instead! Think about it this way: 

2 Dresses at £60.00 each from Topshop
Pair of knee-high boots from River Island at £80.00
Three bags at £8.00 each from Primark
Set of Underwear at £30 from Ann Summers 
Two t-shirts at £15 each from H&M
Makeup from Boots at £30 

This all comes into a shockingly high £314 - for that you could have really treated yourself to a pair of luxury Christian Laboutins. A divine pair of shoes that would last ten times longer than those River Island Boots, Won't be out of fashion in a couple of weeks and so much more satisfactory - A couple of years of budgeting like this and you could have a wardrobe filled with beautiful, designer, heirloom pieces to treasure forever! 

A Costa Rican Wedding?

So... If Scott has his way we will actually be getting married on the beautiful south american island of Costa Rica. Most likely somewhere like the Villa Caletas in Jaco *see picture* with views across the mountains, the rainforest and it's own private beach! It is truly stunning and the sort of country that really is 'us' but we are having a few problems - namely the fact that some of the people we really want there on the day (Scott's mum and a few others) would have problems affording the price of flights out there, not to mention their spending money! 

As you can imagine its a bit of a dilemna - in an ideal world we would have enough money to pay for everyone to get out there but this isnt an ideal world - particularly when it's just Scott working at the moment!

xxx

Scott's Birthday


Had a really lovely weekend - didn't do any wedding planning though :-S!
It was my darling Scott's birthday on Friday and so we had a nice lie-in, went shopping for a few bits and pieces (And new shoes for me!!!) 

I'll be pairing them with black straight jeans (just like i pair everything) and an oversized shirt (probably the birthday boy's!).

The rest of the weekend we spent relaxing, reading, cooking together and listening to music. Although I did fit in a few hours to help my little brother with his egyptian project - I think I enjoyed making the barbie-doll mummy and the sarcophagus more than he did! 

Scott is back at work now though :-( So i'm all alone until very late tonight - completely unfair but someone has to earn the money to pay for our wedding day!

xxx


Tuesday 14 April 2009

The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas - John Boyne

'Pavel is not a doctor anymore Bruno,' said Maria quietly, 'But he was. In another life. Before he came here'.

I've always had a keen interest in the history of the Second World War - particularly in the understanding of the holocaust so when I came across this small book in Borders I made sure I picked it up. The book is about a young boy called Bruno, the son of a nazi commandant, who is moved to Auschwitz Concentration Camp and who makes friends with a boy 'on the other side of the fence'. It is a beautifully written story - and John Boyne has clearly researched his ideas carefully - including many seemingly small details that can be picked up by anybody who has read about the horrific history of the Nazi Occupation and the Holocaust. 

It's quite a deep book and very moving. I would recommend it to anybody - not just those interested in history, but also to anybody interested in the world and the people in it. 

xxx

Thursday 9 April 2009

Birmingham


"When you realise that you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible" - Nora Ephron 'When Hally Met Sally'

Heya! Im back from a fabulous trip to Birmingham to see some of our close friends and their beautiful little daughter Maria! And how happy am I right now to say that me and Scott have just become godparents! 

We had a really good time in Birmingham - doing a little shopping at the Bullring, going on long walks and visiting the parks and farms with our gorgeous god-daughter :-). By the way Maria loves the horses and adores Scott (we couldn't get her away from him!) It was so sweet and the perfect way to bring in the Spring months!

xxx








Tuesday 24 March 2009

Baby!


How much do I want a baby after seeing the adorable Summer ranges from Mamas and Papas and Baby Gap? And who could possibly resist the little converse?! *broody*
xxx

Monday 23 March 2009

Butterfly Wedding Ideas


I absoloutely adore the wonderful butterfly themed ideas I have come across whilst looking for wedding inspiration. These cupcake cases are from an American company called Estilo - unfortunately it doesn't look like they ship to the UK *gutted* so I shall be hunting down UK based suppliers of laser cut cupcake liners/wrappers! Aren't they just beautiful? 

xxx



Perfect Summer Party Ideas

These butterfly and daffodil filled birdcages are perfect centrepieces for a spring or summer wedding or event. You could adapt them to suit any colour scheme simply by changing the flowers or the colour of the butterflies! This is so simple but fun and really brought a smile to my face when I saw it on the Hostess with the Mostess blog! I can just see something very similiar on the tables at my wedding :-) xxx

Hello Lucky!


Hours of research has had me feeling depressed over the revelation that there are very few suppliers of Letterpress Wedding Stationary in the UK. It was horrible seeing all of the beautiful designs available for brides over in the USA and then seeing the, somewhat paltry in comparison, invitations being sold over here in the UK. Over in America Letterpress Invitations are staples of any Bride's wish list - it's about time they got their due in England too! 
And then I came across Hello Lucky! And I fell in *Love*. The company is US based but have a UK website with appropriate prices in sterling and some amazing 'English' Designs. One of my favorites has to be the London Skyline set - perfect for a city wedding and the Save the Dates would be perfect for me and Scott (after all we are getting married around the corner from Tower Bridge!) Hello Lucky! Have the most amazingly perfect invitations around - perfect for any style of wedding and with a huge variety of designs and colour schemes to choose from. 

Letterpress itself is a type of handmade printing technique manufactured in the 1400s which involves each colour or ink being indented into the paper one at a time. It is a time consuming process, and thus more pricey than digitally printed invitations, but the effect is beautiful and well worth the extra money! 

My beautiful Scott

Ok so just read Scott's first post and *aww* i was in tears over it - I love you too baby! The words he wrote are so sweet and thoughtful and I'm completely blown away by it! Just an emotional, blubbing, hormonal wreck at the moment! Bless my gorgeous fiance - I still thank my lucky stars every day that I have such an amazing man in my life - he works so hard and is such a wonderful person to spend my time with! *i am truly blessed* Oh and btw sweety you could have ALL of the rolos if you wanted :-p Goodness... if that is his first post on our blog what are his vows going to be like? Best stock up on the waterproof mascara!!!

Xxx

Scott's First Blog

Hey, this is my first blog entry and to be honest I'm not really sure what to say or how to start but i suppose it always good to start with the important stuff and if I'm starting there then i really should mention Alex as she is the most important thing in my life! we meet nearly three years ago and things have been really been the same since it was nothing as cliche as love a first sight but it was something like the sowing of a seed and with time, effort and a relentless devotion it would grow into what it is now.

waking up every morning and leaving Alex for college or work was damn near impossible when she first moved in with me three months ago and it was still just as hard this morning. I get the distinct feeling that that isn't gonna change tomorrow or any other day after that. it may seem weird but i think that was worth writing about because i don't think that I'll ever get tired or bored of her, don't think I'll need to bitch about her to my friends and family, I'll never need alone time or time with the boys. don't get me wrong I'm not saying i want to be with her every second of every day but what i am saying is that it would be OK if she was.

i love her, she will always have time, spare me her shoulder, budge over on the couch and give me her last Rollo she is my best friend.   

Net-A-Porter

Ok so you all know that net-a-porter isn't exactly within my budget (think more primark!) but this site is amazing fashion inspiration and many a time have I seen something amazing and gorgeous and completely over my budget by about £600 and then visited a store on the high street and seen its exact double! Chloe lookalikes at River Island anyone?! Its also the perfect eye candy website for people like me - shoe addicts! And now they have started up a bridal boutique with sooo many beautiful items for brides, bridesmaids, mothers of the bride and groom, lingerie, honeymoon and guests! How wonderful!!!

Have a look at:

 www.net-a-porter.com/Content/boutique/wedding

Over the next few days I will post up some inspiration boards based on the different categories they have up on the site :-p so keep your eyes peeled!

xxx


Thursday 19 March 2009



Addiction

I am suddenly becoming just SLIGHTLY addicted to the work of Martha Stewart and her Weddings team! Every time I look on the website I am completely enthralled by something new and amazing and *So Perfect* for my own wedding! The best thing about the ideas they put up is that the vast majority of them are DIY ideas - so not only are they budget friendly but they make it so much easier to organise a wedding - who wants to be dilly-dallying with a dozen suppliers when you can just make a quick trip to paperchase or rymans, have a bid on ebay or spend the afternoon with the husband-to-be printing ribbons with our married name? I know what I would much prefer to be doing! At the moment I am browsing the cake selection - and guess what? I have always said that the wedding cake wasn't important to me... but it soooo is! Just take a look at these ones!
 
Scott's pick is the gorgeous colourful butterfly cake - simple but dramatic, fun and flirty isn't it a beauty? And the real beauty? It can cost so much less than a typical wedding cake... Ebay searching butterflies right now... :-) 

And what about the fun and summery daisy cake? Not so easy to do ourselves but what a perfect inspiration for a sunny summer wedding!
xxx

Wednesday 18 March 2009

Photo Credit: Martha Stewart via Style me Pretty

Biscuit and tea tins used as vases like these are beautiful AND eco-friendly :-p Just test them to make sure they are waterproof and fill with single flower arrangements. If they aren't waterproof line them with plastic bags. 

xxx

Picture Credit: Martha Stewart

This cluster of potted zinnias provides a favour and table centrepiece in one. The sign next to the display asks guests to "please pick one". The flowerpots are painted to match the colour scheme and what about personalising them with the names? They could then be place settings as well! These certainly wouldn't look out of place at the wedding scott and me are going for!

xxx

DIY Wedding Favours



The simplest of wedding favours can be made spectacular with a little bit of DIY. 

How romantic are the top favours? They are plain boxes wrapped with newspaper style print of Shakespeare writings. The little beaded tassle with the 'love' beads is a simple but beautiful touch! Adorable! 

The centre image from Martha Stewart Weddings shows how a hole-punch can be used to make these simple dots (and lots of confetti). Lined with a brightly coloured paper and wrapped with a coordinating ribbon the favours look fun and very sweet! I want these at our wedding! 

The bottom favours from Martha Stewart were wrapped in hand-made paper. You can use any word processing program to make the design or for more complicated designs a graphics program. The designs were printed off onto thin paper and wrapped up with thin ribbon as an added touch :-)

xxx

All Pictures and ideas: Martha Stewart Weddings